2012年8月31日星期五

家庭主婦

有幾件人生大事都發生在八月,所以每年八月都令我回憶很多往事。大學畢業後第一份工就是在8月10日上班的,結婚紀念日是8月3日,離開工作轉做全職家庭主婦是8月1日。

轉眼間,離開工作轉做全職家庭主婦已經五年了。雖然當年並非計劃這樣,但這五年也能安於這個工作,喜歡這種生活,縱使這工作很辛苦。還記得當年從《箴言》取經,學習怎樣做一個討上帝喜悅的家庭主婦,今天再回看貼在家中的箴言第三十一章, 心中滿是感恩。


A good woman is hard to find, and worth far more than diamonds.
Her husband trusts her without reserve, and never has reason to regret it.
Never spiteful, she treats him generously all her life long.
She shops around for the best yarns and cottons, and enjoys knitting and sewing.
She's like a trading ship that sails to faraway places and brings back exotic surprises.
She's up before dawn, preparing breakfast for her family and organizing her day.
She looks over a field and buys it, then, with money she's put aside, plants a garden.
First thing in the morning, she dresses for work, rolls up her sleeves, eager to get started.
She senses the worth of her work, is in no hurry to call it quits for the day.
She's skilled in the crafts of home and hearth, diligent in homemaking.
She's quick to assist anyone in need, reaches out to help the poor.
She doesn't worry about her family when it snows;
 their winter clothes are all mended and ready to wear.
She makes her own clothing, and dresses in colorful linens and silks.
Her husband is greatly respected when he deliberates with the city fathers.
She designs gowns and sells them, brings the sweaters she knits to the dress shops.
Her clothes are well-made and elegant, and she always faces tomorrow with a smile.
When she speaks she has something worthwhile to say,  and she always says it kindly.
She keeps an eye on everyone in her household, and keeps them all busy and productive.
Her children respect and bless her; 
her husband joins in with words of praise:"Many women have done wonderful things,
 but you've outclassed them all!"Charm can mislead and beauty soon fades. 
The woman to be admired and praised is the woman who lives in the Fear-of-God.
Give her everything she deserves!   
 Festoon her life with praises!


縱使每天日出便要起床(冬天天未光已起床),我仍求天父讓我更有力去做這份工作,榮耀祂!

2012年8月23日星期四

弟弟站起來!

今早,媽媽如常到廚房飲每天的第一杯水,弟弟就留在他的嬰兒床內。弟弟突然在他的床上大叫,媽媽立即跑去看個究竟,原來他可以靠自己的力量扶著床欄站起來。他的叫聲應該是自己很開心,並叫我們去看看他的成就。對於弟弟來說,這是一個很大的成就!

2012年8月21日星期二

臨爸病了!

臨爸於2012年8月8日入了威院,住了四晚回家渡假兩天,8月13日再入院,14日才正式出院。

因為臨爸持續低溫發熱了差不多一個星期,所以要入院查明原因。經過多項化驗,到目前為止仍原因不明。雖然肝酵素曾一度很高,但這只是一個身體反應,並不是他的肝有異常,隨後,此指數也回落了。現在分配感染科跟進。(從未聽過的一個專科)

經醫生推斷,由小孩傳病毒給他的可能性最高,我們也接受,因家中有兩兒子。而媽媽覺得祉臨就是那個病源,因為媽媽受了不只一次, 而臨爸只是第一次。

祉臨在七月下旬出過一次疹,起初,我們以為他又手足口病,但其後發現不只在手及足的位置,但他又沒有發熱,所以沒有帶他見醫生,三日後不藥而癒。(他就是這樣的,以往他只是流鼻水,也會令媽媽發高熱。)他出完疹,媽媽發高熱,差不多40度,只服退熱藥一天退了。之後,媽媽又出疹在腳上,但過了兩天又不藥而癒。臨爸接著出疹,但因為臨爸身有感冒,所以疹又慢退,而且又再發熱,就是這樣,自身不能康復,所以斷斷續續的發熱不退。

很多父母也經歷過孩子傳染給他們,因為孩子的病毒真的很嚴重,但他們的自癒能力很強,而我們家的祉臨更強,所以我們都很怕他,見到他一流鼻水就高度戒備。而且他的衛生意識又不及成人,所以真的很可怕。

希望事情可以快些完結!